My father groomed me to protect him.
He molested me in my bed in 1980.
When I finally told his bishop in 1991, the bishop called him to meet me in bishop’s office to apologize.
My father said “on that day I had to decide what kind of man I would be. I am sorry your feelings got hurt.”
Two or three months later he was called to work in the Temple, and held that calling until he died.